I've sent you this link because we've reached a point in the discussion where we are no longer being respectful of one another in expressing our opinions. We may be trying to make a point but it is so laced in name-calling and personal insults that it is completely lost. And frankly, it's embarrassing to both of us. I have no desire to hurt your feelings and if you have a modicum of humanity, hopefully you feel the same. So I am going to call an end to this discussion.
If you are still pissed off, here are some things you can do instead to calm down:
1) Take a bubble bath
2) Eat a chocolate brownie (minimum 500 calories)
3) Hug a loved one (if you are still angry, keep arms at mid-chest to avoid accidental strangling)
4) Go for a run
5) Read a good book (+/- on the toilet)
7) Pleasure yourself
And if none of that works, I've observed good things with the pacifier.
In any case, I will no longer be participating in this discussion. If this is on my blog, all your future comments on the thread will be deleted.
Have a lovely day!